Learn to Love
All these virtues are interlinked, because everything is interrelated. Health, sexuality, money and human relations are all interconnected. One interact on another. By developing this virtue, someone will positively influence all other parts of his life. What we are saying here is this: By developing the above virtue, it is possible to have a better overall health, flourishing sexuality, good financial situation and marvelous human relations. Keep reading the whole contain, and benefit from this amazing truth. We started with love, because this virtue is the crown of all other virtues. All others virtues seem to spring from love or make their way toward love. In fact love is expressed in every virtue, and every virtue is an expression of love. Vertical Love (between God and human beings) and horizontal Love (between living beings). When he wrote: The strength of love, Martin Luther King said a lot; did a lot. Love is the feeling of desire and affection that two beings of opposite sex are experiencing. Love is also the deep and disinterested attraction that someone feels for a being or something. Love is patient When someone cherishes, he/she is patient; patient with oneself, patient with others. Patience is a very important virtue; especially nowadays where the culture of speed and haste seems to be the norm. But many have missed many opportunities because they did not show patience. To be patient means to wait; but to wait wisely; therefore, to learn to wait. To wait patiently is not synonymous with waste of time. The champion, who knows how to wait, is waiting for the opportune moment. He / she knows that acting too soon or too late, can lead to failure. It is good to learn to act in time, at the right time. If it is not the right time, patience is required. A good schedule like the one you already have (see your: My Timetable ), allows proper planning of your time. So, you do not lose time. The loss of time can lead to impatience and rush, with all the risk of failures that entails. Review your: My Life Story , and see the successes that you have had due to the exercise of patience. But also find failures that you have endured because of a lack of patience. So take this firm decision: "From today I will exercise myself. I will be patient, on all occasions, in order to enjoy success and happiness." Love is kind When someone loves, he / she is kind; helpful. How many times have you help your fellow-creature today? Doubtless more than once. This helpfulness means that you have cherished your fellow-creature. Congratulation! Because in this decisive and difficult world, it is not easy to love our fellow-creatures; to help them. Quite the contrary, we realize that many people seem to enjoy this perverse pleasure: to complicate the task of their fellow-creatures, to be at war with them, to make their life more difficult and miserable. But this kind of pleasure is hardly rewarding. This vicious pleasure is indeed dangerous; so much for the victim and for those who enjoy it. But we want to serve our fellow-creatures. Because we know that such action enriches our body, our soul and our spirit. Such noble action harmonizes our emotions, matures our feeling and brings us success and happiness. So take this firm decision: "From today I will be kind and helpful, on all occasions, in order to enjoy success and happiness." Love is charitable Charity is defined as love of God and fellow-creature. My friend, exercise charity; but above all let us be charitable. That is to say that our charitable actions must be sincere and come from the bottom of our heart. And not be done against heart, in order to show it to people and have a clear conscience. Someone can be charitable and helpful to his fellow-creatures in many ways: by making alms to the poor and needy, relieving the lives of animals and plants, taking care of the environment, giving good advices (charitable advices), visiting the sick, honoring his father and mother, loving his wife, her husband and children. Charitableness. So take this firm decision: "From today let's be charitable, on all occasions, in order to enjoy success and happiness." Love is faithful Being faithful means: to be constant; faithful and steadfast in all decisions and promises. A faithful person is faithful to his word, his friendships, his beloved ones, his wife, her husband. A faithful employee or boss can be trusted. It is possible to rely on them; because they are conscientious and tell the truth. A faithful friend is dedicated and constant. Conjugal fidelity is a great testimony of true love. A faithful person respects and keeps his faith. Faithfulness is synonymous with success and happiness. So take this firm decision: "From today let's be faithful, on all occasions, in order to enjoy success and happiness." Love is not jealous and envious When someone cherishes, he/she is not jealous. Jealousy is a bad scourge. Jealousy is devastating for health and that of fellow-creatures. A jealous person is generally a lazy person. Because instead of striving (by his efforts) to get what he envies from others, he prefers to do nothing and be jealous. Being jealous justifies his laziness and his disability. But such a person would be surprised if he was told that his attitude is far from being able to improve its situation. Let us be clear: "Someone may want to possess the same thing as its neighbors and even more. It is legitimate and legal. But there is a big difference between to want the same or better, and to be bitter because someone has what we don’t or someone is what we aren’t. It is not the same thing." Jealousy is the source of many crimes and atrocities. In general, a jealous person will act. That is to say: after his discontent, his jealousy will push him to eliminate the source of his envy… Jealousy is bad for health. An envious person ages faster. He gets tired more quickly; because a large part of its energy is wasted during its jealous thoughts. Now take this firm decision: "From today let's avoid to be jealous and envious, in order to enjoy success and happiness." Love does not boast When someone cherishes, he / she doesn’t boast. Bragging is not a quality, quite the contrary. The braggart is generally haughty. He exhibited clumsily what he has or what he knows. It is a lack of taste. The braggart spreads its wealth and expertise with exaggeration. In doing so, he doesn’t leave more room for its own improvement; because he is convinced to have achieved everything. The braggart is self-important. Many braggarts are usually place-seekers, arrivistes. In their psychology, it goes like this: “They are not quite convinced to posses the little they have, or convinced to be what they claim to be. What they have obtained or what they know, has not been acquired with merit and effort. Otherwise, they would be more modest.” Bragging may bring jealousy, contempt and hatred in the entourage. You are rich and clever, you have many talents and skills? Well. Let your friends appreciate them at their fair value. People are not indifferent about what is going on around them. To over show your achievements can only bring problems in the long run. The fanfaron. The braggart... Let nobody allow this vice to rot him from the inside. So take this firm decision: "From today I will avoid bragging, in order to enjoy success and happiness.” Love does not get puffed up When someone cherishes, he/she does not get puffed up. A puffed up person, has not reached an enviable stage of intellectual and emotional maturity. A puffed up person has a too advantageous opinion for its personal value. He is too proud and has an exaggerated appreciation of its person. In French the expression: To be very pretentious, is literally translated as: «Péter plus haut que son derrière» (to fart higher than his own buttocks). So a puffed up person, if you allow, farts higher than his hole. And I am polite... You will notice that in this illustration, the initiative is perilous. Puffed up people haven’t more merit than the braggarts. It is easy to put them in the same basket. But you, you want to appreciate yourself at your fair value and let others judge. You don’t want to pretend to be what you are not. Why believing to be perfect and no longer seek to progress? There is a real danger to get puffed up. We all know the fable by Jean de La Fontaine: La grenouille qui veut se faire aussi grosse que le Boeuf. Translated: The frog who wanted to become a bull. Take also the firm decision: "From today I would avoid to get puffed up, in order to be successful and enjoy happiness." Love does nothing dishonest and indecent When someone cherishes, he/she avoids being dishonest and indecent. I know. It is not easy. I would say even more, it is not easy. In this lower world, the pursuit of honesty is a titanic task. Yes. In this turning world, honest people seem to row against the current. In this world, honest people are seen as foreign people; curious people who did not understand the rules of the game. In this world, it seems like the thief is someone who is caught his hand inside the bag, rather than someone who theft in secret. How strange it is... Someone can be dishonest in many ways. * Dishonesty against oneself. This applies to individuals who pretend. They agree that they must change things in their lives. But they play with themselves; they pretend to change it. They are a bit like these characters that see themselves in a mirror, leave and forget what kind of person they really are. * The theft and deception are the most common forms of dishonesty. To steal means: to take possession of what belong to someone else. To lie means: to say what is not true (the most common form of lie). Lying means also: to deny what is true. Really. However, we know that the employee who doesn’t do all his work and earns a salary, shows a very subtle form of dishonesty: hands-free theft. We also know that the employer who doesn’t give the proper salary to his employee, shows a very subtle form of dishonesty: hands-free theft. But honesty steal pays. That is the good news. It is possible to be honest and succeed in life. In fact, let’s go straight to the point: "Honesty, is another laws of success and happiness." Observe nature very well. Nature is honest. Nature does not theft and does not lie. That nature was created and given to us on purpose. Nature is also there to invite us to think. Let us think; because anyone who thinks will finally understand. And all that is understood is good. Love does not theft, does not lie and does not file false testimony. Take this firm decision: "From today I will avoid to be dishonest and indecent, in order to be successful and enjoy happiness." Love is not self-seeking Love forgives. When someone cherishes he/she also seeks the interest of others. To cherish our fellow-creatures means also: to try to facilitate their life. This is what means to worry about them. Increasingly, individualism and selfishness seems to be the best way to live. Me first, Me only and Me always. But in this approach, people seem to forget that: altruism is also the key to success and happiness. Some people seem to forget that: humanity has an individual and collective dimension. Nature has an individual and collective dimension. The law of giving and receiving can be seen everywhere in nature. It is an education for our edification. Searching only its own interest, is to ignore a simple principle but little understood: "By helping others, someone helps also himself." Because: "The more we serve, the better we are served." In fact our success also depends on the success of others. In life, nothing is done alone; nothing is done in one way. Someone can seeks the interest of others by paying attention to their needs. In principle, anyone who follows this golden law, checked and tested several times, will be victorious many times. So take this firm decision: "From today I will seek my own interest and the interest of others, on all occasions, in order to be successful and enjoy happiness." Love is not angered When someone cherishes, he / she is not angered; at least not easily angered. It is not good to be easily angered to oneself or to others. By the way, it is useless. Between you and me, how many times have you seen improvement of a situation when someone is angry with himself or with others? The best thing to do is to follow advices that you are reading now, to understand them, and apply them in your life. To be easily angered is not good for the health of the body, soul and spirit. Anger dis-harmonizes emotions and sentiments; anger opens the door to some neuroses (psychological troubles, mental or emotional disorders). The blood of people, who are easily angered, contains a greater concentration of toxin; unlike the blood of people who are calm. That's the scientific reality. Irritation can thwart many projects and poison family life, professional activities and friendship. People rarely research the company of those who are easily angered. So let’s not be easily angered. Irritation disrupts sexual health, success and human relations (interpersonal relations). Breathing exercises that we provided you with, fight effectively irritation and nervousness; see the section above: Increase your strengths through the science of breathing.. As already said, irritation and nervousness are responsible for cerebral rhythm called "beta" (14 to 30 cycles per second). Irritation is the source of some problems: constipation, hypertension, heart attack, impatience, precipitation, lack of self-control, hatred, crime, etc. In two words... evils: failure and misfortune. Take this firm decision: "From now on I will avoid to be easily angered to myself or to others, in order to be successful and enjoy happiness." Love does not meditate evil and does not harm fellow-creatures When someone cherishes, he / she does not meditate evil and does not harm fellow-creatures. Love doesn’t murder. Meditating evil can lead to do evil thing. It is a fact that any action is firstly a thought. Actions are often a reflection of thoughts. "Every little action has one reaction". Subjects of meditations, which must constantly be yours and mine, are those that we share with you now. Love is good. Take this firm decision: "From today I will avoid to meditate evil and to harm fellow-creatures, in order to be successful and enjoy happiness." Love keeps no record of wrongs When someone cherishes, he / she forgives everything. He / she forgives oneself and others. Some people may say: "What? To forgive him? No way! Never in life. Do you know what he/she did to me? Eye for eye, tooth for tooth." I know, I know. It is not easy to forgive. All those who have tried to forgive know that it is not easy. And yet this is what must be done: To forgive. It is a bit easier to forgive when someone can forget. But for those who have a memory like an elephant... Here arises a strange paradox: "In order to forgive, someone may need to forget. But in order to forget, someone has to think about what he/she wants to forget. And the more someone think about it, the less he / she seems to forgive." What a vicious cycle! But this vicious circle can be broken by love. To forgive means: to love. To love means: to forgive. Someone who forgives endures all things. Thus, that person deploys noble forces of his/her soul. Its health is improved. Its sudden joy and energy increase. Its sexuality flourishes. Its financial situation is improved. Its relations with the entourage are better. Happiness becomes a reality. My friend, forgiveness is not a weakness but strength. Forgiveness frees the person who forgive and the person who is forgiven. How do you know you have really forgiven your fellow-creature? Well, when you don’t have any resentment towards yourself or/and towards the person to whom you have forgiven. This is not an easy task. Isn’t it? Is not an easy task at all. I agree. But anyone who is motivated by the sincere desire to forgive can forgive. Someone who forgives believes and hopes that everything is still possible. To forgive means: to show optimism. This having been said, we know that forgiveness and justice go hand in hand. Sometimes justice comes before forgiveness; but sometime forgiveness comes before justice; sometimes justice and forgiveness are concurrent. Great souls have always been able to forgive. Someone has a great soul because he / she forgives, someone forgives because he/she has a great soul. Forgiveness helps achieve many things in life. Someone has offended you? Have kindness to forgive unconditionally. Take this firm decision: "From today I will forgive myself and my fellow-creature, unconditionally, in order to succeed and enjoy happiness."
When someone cherishes, he/she finds no pleasure in injustice, but delights in the truth. No matter if it is cultural or natural justice, justice is justice. Justice is what is right. Observe scales very well. It is on purpose that the justice system took The lady of justice for its symbol. Note that the woman who holds scales wear a blindfold and hold a sword, Translation: the real justice is just, does not take appearances into account, and true justice carries punishment with love. Justitia symbolizes the fair and equal administration of the law, without corruption, avarice, prejudice, or favor. Justice and truth are interchangeable terms. What is just is true. And vice versa. Those who seek true success and happiness, cultivate justice and truth. Therefore, they delight in justice and truth. Because they understand that injustice and lies are sources of many misfortunes. Unjust people who like to lie, ends up paying a bitter price for their vice. They have noting to loose by waiting. To celebrate injustice and lies is the wrong road. Those who take that wrong road, end up paying a bitter price for their vices. To celebrate injustice and lies is another form of ignorance and evil. In many ways, injustice and lies are not good for health. Because our conscience knows what is right and true. Our conscience always reminds us what is right and true. That same conscience condemns or releases someone, imprisons or frees someone; depending on whether someone is right and true, or unjust and liar. Say and mean this: "From today I will delight in Justice and Truth, in all occasions, in order to be successful and enjoy happiness." Whoever sows Love, harvest success and happiness. Blessed who understands this Eternal truth! The poet says: "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails." He is right. Love is Eternal, as its Name…
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